Why You Should Try Mirror Sex

Do you remember that scene in American Psycho where the guy watches himself in the mirror as he is banging a hot young lady? That’s one way of doing mirror sex! 

What is Mirror Sex?

Mirror sex is just what it’s called – it’s a sexual experience where partners are watching themselves in the mirror while actively having sex. 

Why People Enjoy Mirror Sex?

Mirror sex is not just reserved for narcissists and high-fashion models with perfect bodies. 

Anyone can enjoy mirror sex for several reasons, and many people do! Here are the main allure points for them.

Boost that erotic spirit! 

Seeing yourself in the mirror adds one more stimulation factor – visuals. Indeed, you can see yourself and view your partner as you bounce on top, under, or on the side of them. However, with the mirror, you unlock new angles and see both of you from a new perspective. It almost feels like spying on someone, a common fantasy that is very arousing. 

Having a bonus view of your act drives erotic excitement through the roof and makes you enjoy sex more. 

Confidence boost 

We see how that point can be ridiculed, but no matter your relationship with your body, hear us out. 

Facing our bodies as they are – naked, sweaty, and doing odd movements can be surprisingly liberating. You see yourself unprotected and vulnerable, and you get to appreciate yourself more. Also, the fact that sex usually happens with dim to no lights at all will probably make you look superb anyway! 

Most of us look at our bodies in broad daylight when we change or go through the horror of trying new clothes in changing rooms with terrible lighting. Seeing yourself have sex and noticing little details about yourself is a much more pleasant experience, we promise!

Deeper connection with your partner 

Say what you want, but seeing each other naked during sex through a mirror is a unique thing to do. Whether you like what you saw, you are united by this shared experience. 

It will undoubtedly bring you closer, even if just a little bit. It will also make your intimacy more engaging in the future. 

Attention to detail

Sometimes, mechanic and familiar sex is good, especially if you’re looking for a quickie in between tasks and chores. Yet, it’s not good when you’re almost dissociating from the process and not paying attention to details. Using mirrors changes that as you’ll be forced to notice those nuances and appreciate them more, too. 

Change things up in your sex routine

The best part about mirror sex is that everyone has mirrors in their house! It’s a super affordable and easy way to elevate and boost your sex life. 

You don’t need to do it in front of a wall-to-wall mirror. Even a small one will suffice. 

A smaller mirror will make it even more exciting for you. It will seem like you’re spying on another couple, and with a small one, you wouldn’t be able to see everything correctly, especially since you’ll be moving a lot.

How to Build Up the Courage to Try Mirror Sex

We get it: mirror sex is not for the faint-hearted. It takes courage and an adventurous mindset to face yourself as you are. 

Here are a few tips to help you build the confidence to thoroughly experiment and enjoy the process.

1. Don’t get fully naked. Sex doesn’t require 100% nudity, right? Start by removing one element of clothing that reveals the part of your body you’re most proud of. As you get more comfortable, switch elements of the wardrobe up or go completely naked. 
2. Let it be a part of the routine, not the entirety of it. As you move around during sex, involve the mirror for a few minutes before moving on to a different spot and position, or simply put the mirror down so it’s no longer reflecting your body. 
3. Do it with dimmed lights. Leave a lighted candle or a minor light so that you can see a little bit, but not much. Soft lighting will hide anything you might not be proud of, and you’ll be able to focus on the most critical part – erotic pleasure from sex. 
4. Practice makes perfect. If you don’t usually spend time looking at yourself naked in the mirror, how about changing that? Aim to dress and undress in front of the mirror and look at yourself fully naked from time to time. Once you get used to seeing your body with nothing on top, adding the sex element to it would not be such a dramatic thing to do.

Positions to Try During Mirror Sex

You don’t need a guide or a list of recommended positions to start experimenting with mirror sex, but if you’re looking for inspo, then here are a few positions you can play out in front of a mirror. 

1. Doggy style is rather flattering for both partners. Plus, that’s the position where we don’t see ourselves much. If you’re being dogged, you’re looking down or to the side and maybe seeing your upper body and hands a little bit. If you’re the dogger, then you get to see your body just a bit and from one angle only. Mirror sex will change your perspective on doggy style. 
2. Lying doggy is when you’re lying on your stomach, and your partner is on top of you. Your bodies are up on display but hidden simultaneously, with stomachs pressed into the surface one person is lying on, and then the second partner’s stomach is pressed into their partner. This eradicates the common bodily insecurity and makes it a great position to add to your mirror sex mix.
3. Cowgirl is another flattering position where both lovers will probably enjoy watching themselves, even if they’re usually really shy. Reverse cowgirl is also something you shouldn’t sleep on!
4. An on-the-side position is a great choice if you’re up for more self-exploration and admiration. If you’re the little spoon there, then the mirror will show exclusively your body, allowing you and your partner to see it in full glory. 
5. Standing facing each other or turned away is one of the easiest sex positions to try with a mirror because you can just walk to your full-length mirror in the hallway or bedroom with no extra adjustment necessary. 
6. Missionary is a classic that so many couples love and exercise. If you’re one of them, give it a go to see what your bodies typically look like during sex.  

Not a position, but something we highly recommend you try is to comment on what’s going on, what you’re seeing, and what you find beautiful and erotic. You and your partner can both do it. Hearing something affirming about your body from your lover can be life-changing. Give it a go at least one time. 

Shower sex is also technically not a position, but it’s a spot where you will probably be able to see yourself having sex regardless of how you choose to do it if your mirror faces the shower – great! Get rid of those curtains and enjoy the view! The location and the water dripping down your body will make your sex even steamier (pun intended).

Bonus tips for your mirror sex experiments:

• Make eye contact through the mirror; it’s intensely erotic.
• Try oral sex in front of the mirror or masturbate one another. 
• Foreplay is also a great thing to do in front of a mirror. 
• Put the mirror under your body to see yourself from truly unique angles, but make sure it’s sturdy enough so you won’t hurt yourselves.
• Try undressing slowly and let your partner watch you through the mirror and vice versa. 
• Add a tiny mirror into the mix so you guys can put it next to your genitals and watch penetration up close. 

Try Mirror Masturbation While You’re at It

Have no partner to do mirror sex with? No problem! 

You don’t need anyone to enjoy the company of a mirror. Take that baby from the wall, the table, or wherever you store it, and put it in front of you as you start a solo session. 

If you think mirror sex is intimidating, try looking at your genitals up close! No, seriously, please try it, as it can drastically change your perspective on what works for your body and what doesn’t, as well as what parts of you are most sensitive and respond well to stimulation. 

Think of it as exposure therapy, too. The more you see yourself from unfamiliar angles, the more accepting you are of your body.